- Life after lifetime the cycles of ignorance and the belief in limitations have snaked along. We are born into families and circumstances perfect for our reawakening, but until now, we did not know it. The family collection and the individuals contained had their issues. Their own wounds influenced mightily how they showed up in moments. Every new born child reminds the parents of their own remarkable design, forgotten and misplaced for the moment. This can be troubling, triggering wounds that misunderstood, are laid upon the inner and outer energy field of the precious being who carries the truth of the original design…you. The past is played out and the sins of the father perpetuate upon the generations…until someone chooses to stop the cycle.
- Your growing remembering of who you are is interrupting the runaway cycles of the just the way it is. Here is where re-parenting comes in. You simply must take it upon yourself to become the parent to your own child, the parent that you never had…stable, balanced, healthy, filled with knowledge and the willingness to act upon it to create the perfect environment, within and without, , to keep the little one remembering who they truly are…until the point when she can take over the maintenance on his own.
- To re-parent is to replace the misinformation. It involves the use of the multiple dimensions of child and parent, each called upon as necessary to remove the misinformation, lift the veils, reseed the inner knowing, and oversee the reawakening. In this recovered frequency the child then surrenders to the trusting relationship with the Adult/Parent self and allows herself to immerse with the beauty and the flow of life.
- The child has to feel safe. Do this by making sure she knows you are there for her, that you will never abandon him, and that you will love her without condition or question. Ever building and reinforcing safety opens the door to taking away the misappropriated responsibilities he took on, far beyond his consciousness and years.
- The child needs to know his needs will be met: food, shelter, money, water, clothing, and an ever expanding acceptance of her unique expression of the I Am expressing as Me. Consistent communication and care must be adhered to to allow the release of resistance and protection on the child’s part.
- When the child knows his needs are met, she will be willing to let go of the control, one by one…beliefs, actions, patterns. He will open up to re-education. She will soon see how she did a lot of things to assure her survival, things that honestly, way beyond her years. He will gladly let go because the burden of responsibility robbed her of his childhood. You are here to give it back.
- To re-parent, one must open up and maintain channels of two way communication with the little one. You have to show interest, give direction and love, have fun, play with her, reinforce your continued presence and availability. You must include her in all the things you do unless it is inappropriate, then you let him know what you expect. He wants guidelines and parameters that she can butt up against, wants to be able to access power and risk but know that you are there to catch him should she stumble, wants to have a loving, mutually serving relationship with you.
- In other words, do everything that you would like to have had done for you as a child, and more.
- And you must know by know that this is all about conscious self care. To focus on the inner child opens the door to care that many would be unwilling to apply to themselves due to worthiness issues. The inner child is real, but self care attends to all parts of ourselves equally.
