Some key elements in relationship care:

• Relationships of all kinds must be consciously tended to.
• One must be open to receive and willing to give for the sweet exchange to take place.
• To take proper care of oneself first, paves the way to having the clarity and energy to sustain clean connections with others.
• Relationships are in constant evolution. This requires awareness and a willingness to share feelings, thoughts, and experiences with all parties in the relationship.
• The debris of the past unexpressed emotions interferes with the evolution of each relationship and keeps one circling in an eddy of fear as long as one chooses to do so.
• The encounters we experience are not random. Each player is seeded with the exact frequency and personal history/ experience to feed us the vibration that will reveal the next reawakening of the I Am That I Am Expressing As Me.
• We engage as long as we do. The moments are the road signs and the beacons that point us to the next knowing. Evolution is personal and collective for all involved. Thus we serve one another.
• Chance meetings are anything but that. The vibration does the work. Occasionally we have strong insight that completes a long standing circuit. Typically, however, we have an experience that crawls out the veil to give us a glimpse that functions as a catalyst to do the next thing.
• To think that we can leave one thing/person for another for a better time is foolish and short sighted if the inner work/learnings are not attended to. The previous one brought all the opportunities we could handle to wake up to our limiting patterns and compromising beliefs. If we choose to not learn and run away we will surely find ourselves staring at the same face in a new hat.
• The heart is the primary vehicle that reveals the wholeness of life. Protecting the heart from feeling/ releasing./ Clearing/ expanding/celebrating/loving will be your ticket to a whole lot of lifetimes where you simply recycle the familiar and go slowly towards remembering while you wonder why the same people keep coming back in new clothes.
• The past does not serve a relationship for it ties each to a form that only served that moment. Expansion is tethered to the fear residue of the mass of experiences that made up the time together. Release can only come when one or both unplug from what was. This requires a willingness to see each moment as new and choose to toss the loss game, the pain game, and the abandonment game into the abyss where they belong..
• Eye contact is everything.
• Listening to the other is the vehicle that translates as witnessing which leads to healing which results in the deeper connection that unifies hearts and souls.
• Tone of voice betrays the emotion underneath the words. This is really what we listen for. Aligning the tone with the emotion and the words will result in communication that opens doors and hearts to seed expansion in the relationship. We can all spot a fakir even we cannot articulate it.
• Breathing together diminishes fear and unifies the heart which then reveals the deeper meaning of the current connection.
• Touch is essential to bridge the gap between physical and spirit. Sending Love from the heart through the hands and skin will ignite the complete expanse of all the connections between the two frequencies involved. The ignition of this memory can be the perfect vehicle to clear the energetic debris.
• We come into the space of people who resonate with us at the current frequency. Each mutually serves the other for as long as it is needed. Holding on to someone against their inner or outer will is a violation. Learning to bless and let go allows for the necessary motion that reveals the bigger picture to each. Standing alone gives us back ourselves wrapped in the higher frequency of what has just been learned, further expanding our personal I Amness.
• For sex to serve the greater truth it must have individual and shared meaning based on a higher frequency. It is a cosmic connection that can expand and heal each. It must include the emotional, mental, and spiritual along with the physical for it to be considered holy and divine. It is conscious and is best served by consistently tending to both partner’s energetic and inspired needs. Riding the wave of spontaneity is highly recommended. To dance together in this improvisation requires that the senses are on and the child is active. Opening the back side of the chakras allows the cosmos to flood the experience and lift it out of the sphere of the mundane.
• We are in constant relationship with all of life. Learning to notice the multi tiered forms of each moment will reveal the majesty and magic of the connections as they oscillate. Maintaining wonder will open inner doors that flood you with deep and glowing gratification at the revelation of the remarkable design. Everything within view is part of your sphere of relationship. Including nature and space and form and people and circumstance will significantly expand how you are in relationship with life.  You are being gifted constantly. See it as such. Experience fully on all levels all that is brought to the altar of your awareness.
• Know that you have immediate access to all the relationships you have ever had in any of your incarnations and in all future lives. Knowing this you are able to draw upon experiences and identify strangers that wander into your field. You can bring forth the healings necessary and manifest the allies ready to assist. Leave nothing unsettled or unresolved. For you have the capacity to fully serve every form of every moment. The tools are there and the design is symbiotic to the current choice, assuring success and balance and release as needed. Be a willing participant in your life. It will truly serve you beyond your wildest dreams. Yes, it is that profound.
• Remember the primary need of self care as it prepares you to embrace and serve whatever may come. You will have more of everything to give to the current form. And you will not be depleted or compromised. The more you attend to it the closer you are to your frequency of your original design, which allows you to self sustain.
• All beings are connected and interconnected. All behaviors impact the whole. All feelings are collectively felt. All choices influence the forms of all life. We oscillate in and out of an infinite number of lives in multidimensional interchanges that transcend time and space. Simultaneous lives and relationship with completely unique lives are happening. We often integrate them during the dream state and in meditation. The bottom line is to be open to always inviting in the larger expanse.
• Trust implicitly how relationships mirror how we treat our own self. The more we love self and tend Self then the more loving and sustaining the outer relationships are.
• Having a lot of relationships serve the many parts of us relieves the pressure for the need to have one who can do it all.