The nature of relationships has been strongly influenced by Piscean perspectives and beliefs. These are insidious and live in the tissues and cells of most everyone on this planet. They are limiting and manipulative and controlling. They are being replaced by the inclusive energies and framework of the Aquarian Age. What follows is a comparison. Seeing this may prompt you to move more in the direction of the awakening Aquarius frequency…hopefully.

Some of the Piscean tenets:

• One needs a partner to complete them since we all are limited beings.
• There are certain ever changing characteristics that will make you desirable so you can get the perfect partner
• Your elusive Soul Mate will complete you and allow you to live happily ever after.
• The woundings and abuses and experiences we carry will doom us to repeating the same over and over. They are who we are.
• Some people are more fortunate and desirable and will get the best relationships
• Relationships are based on power, money, stuff, attractability, etc.
• Unless you are in a relationship with another human there is something wrong with you
• Once you are in the relationship it is supposed to be forever. Loss means failure.
• Blame is a major part of people in relationship. Somebody did something to the other.
• You can only have one relationship at a time, especially between members of the opposite sex.
• One person is supposed to provide you with everything.
• Certain kinds of relationships are better and more preferred than others.
• Relationships with the other kingdoms are mocked and shamed.
• The relationship with God needs an intermediary.
• Infidelity is fine and expected for men but a shameful and adulterous experience for a woman.
• Sex is shameful and necessary only for procreation.
• Certain kinds of experiences we just do not talk about
• You must be married to be in the best situation. Marrying too late, especially for women, is frowned upon and shameful. She must be undesirable.
• Having relationship with self is being selfish or ego based.
• Others well being is a priority for you.
• The man is the ruler of the house. They don’t have to talk or explain themselves. They take care of business
• Abuse is OK
• Women are emotional and therefore week. A man must take care of them. She is at the whim and demand of the man.
• Marriage can be a convenience or a tool for power.
• Sex is a powerful tool of manipulation for both men and women…a means to an end.
• In marriage, the woman must be available to the man whenever he demands it
• Sex is performance.
• Your looks are everything. Men age gracefully while women get old and  must do everything to look younger.
• Communication is a tool for control.
• Emotions are either bad or good…no in-between
• Relationships and sex are two different things. For men it is about numbers  For women it is about desirability. Where’s the love?
• The entertainment and arts perpetuate the  relationship stereotypes. We learn about love through music and movies and books. Most often they are pain filled and usually end up in loss and hurt. Lasting relationship is a Disney fairy tale.
• You get the picture…and this is such a prevalent part of the energetic debris/beliefs most of us carry.

Aquarian Relationship tenets:

• Relationships are a primary tool for the Source to experience Itself. Free Will opens the door to the infinite panorama of possibility.
• Relationship is a primary tool for checking where we are vibrationally. The outer reflects the inner. One can use the kind of attractions that manifest to determine which elements need attention and adjustment.
• Relationships are a tool to trigger, allow, and support the release of the energetic woundings contained in cell and tissue.
• One is in relationship with all of life.
• Being in the presence of any form of being creates the opportunity for a relationship
• Relationship serves both parties mutually by creating opportunity for greater awareness and adjustment and clearing.
• No matter the form we are never alone. The multi=dimensional support team of angels, etheric teachers, guides, and teachers are ever present and available by call.
• All relationships are heart based and are invited in to grow the heart chakra awareness and expansion.
• Love is the primary Source for relationship. Our capacity to love is honed through relationship.
• The relationship with self is of primary importance and must be maintained and cleared in order to be in relationship with others.
• Although we may be in a primary relationship, there are many others who can be supportive of that and serve to get all of our needs met.
• It is necessary to treat all relationships with honor, respect, compassion, and empathy.
• Being grateful expands the depth of any experience.
• Source Love is present in all connections.
• We are lovable, loving and loved.
• Self Care can create the space where we can let others be who they are and still be nurtured within by our own infinite supply
• Emotions and their flow of expression are essential elements to life in this Earthly dimension. Thus, they are to be honored, experienced fully, and expressed without hesitation.
• Love is the perfect salve for any issue between beings
• Any ending in a relationship will open the door to something better, of higher vibration that is more in alignment with the frequency of I Am Expressing as me
• Relationships that never end are held in place by lower frequency cords that require cutting.
• Conscious relationships are cooperative, communicative, loving, respectful, authentic, supportive, compassionate, nurturing, healing, joyful, elevating, grateful, spirited, expansive, playful, life affirming, child-like, tender, passionate, sensual, juicy…and oh so much more
• We create relationship with whatever we focus upon. That moment opens the door to an expansive experience that reveals itself through the attention and the subsequent interaction.
• All relationships that we have ever engaged in, in all of our incarnations, are available in the now to re-experience, heal, draw from, celebrate
• Our intentions are powerful magnets for relationship.
• Maintaining a relationship requires clearing energies in the now and just beyond. Washing them with the past is a sure way to diminish their light. Each relationship is born anew in the now if we let it and move forward in that knowing.
• Our moments of living are filled with the infinite potential of countless relationships maintained and experienced on all levels. Our interconnectedness is that profound.
• Consciously connecting at the heart level is a loving act that empowers us beyond our current knowing.
• Sexual connecting is the Divine Experience that reveals the depths of the power of union, showing us the Cosmic blueprint for that fully conscious moment.
• The unfolding Oneness is revealing that the relationship with the Whole contains all the permutations that bring life to our moments.