Beyond the one in the mirror, the relationship with others is the most telling expression of the overall health of you. The Laws of Attraction and As Within, So Without  reveal you to you in stages. What you feed the self is manifested in the forms of the moments in the players and the circumstances and the environments. Pretty simple to get….you may not understand how. But it does work that way. So why not step into it whole heartedly with arms and eyes wide open? And let me remind you…fear is no longer a useable or accepted excuse for hanging back. You transcended that in session one whether you accept that or not.

We attract at the frequency in which we live in this moment and the immediate past. We are a rolling and flowing revelation to ourselves. How cool is that?So, knowing this and choosing to act in alignment will bless you in ways far beyond your walls of limited thinking can keep you stuck. Might as well surrender to the higher Frequencies of the design. Say goodbye to the way it has been, old friend…and good riddance, too!

The one before you reflects all your work and the bruised knees and the achievements and the failures. How do you see them/ Do you welcome them? Do you notice their flaws/ Do you express them or do you swallow them? A thousand questions to ask…all relevant…but all leading you back to the simple fact, you are in a holy process of recreating you, remembering who you were each time you crossed the threshold between incarnations…but each time evolving in a higher frequency knowing that you could actually bring into the next incarnation…if you so desired.

Obviously, the invitation here is to see clearly that which is before you. We are too easily swayed to find fault and diss the one before us, criticizing and judging and pushing and manipulating and abusing. And sadly, this is how we tend to treat ourselves…until we don’t. And that is the key here: we have a choice. I honestly do not care what has happened to you…or me…anymore, for that is the rabbit hole that distracts us enough to drink the poison again and wallow in our poor me place. It served us for a time…but certainly not anymore. Haven’t you been listening through this course? Is it sinking in yet just how powerful you are…how expansive you are…how unlimited you are?   

The one before you has clues, information that points you to where you have work to do in expanding your awareness and reawakening. If you start to use this then you will soon be embracing the wounded parts of you and freeing the debris to bring you home. Then the ones before you will be there to party with you…and love you…and lift you up.

It is classic to say that the pointing finger of criticism has 4 fingers pointing back at ourselves. We pay attention to that which we have disowned. Stop it…bring it all home. Start to own what your judgments and criticisms are, what compromises your moments and steers you to hesitate in life, what keeps you looking out the window at life instead of running through the fields in life.

We are in relationship with one another, with many at a time. Start to see how each feeds us and gives us information about how we are showing up and choosing to be. What is there to lose? The old ways? C’mon….enough of that!

The best primary relationships are filled with people who provide us with what the main partner cannot. No one can give us all of what we want. Expecting this has destroyed many, many marriages and partnerships. Rather, open to the one who communicate well, the one who plays well, or the one who loves the sky as much as you. Spend time with them in full disclosure to your partner and then show up in your delight to him or her. They will quickly see the value of this and celebrate the reduction on them to deliver on everything. And even their fears about sex and betrayal and abandonment will start to heal. Just sayin’…

People come and go. We are taught that things have to last. In the search for the perfect one to complete us, we get easily sucked into the idea that unless you are with me I am nothing…I cant live if living is without you….Let them come and go but fully show up every time you are around and with them. Engage the relationship and let it give you its gifts of revelation and understanding and acceptance and witnessing. And if it struggles, look for the information and own your parts. Running to another will only change the packaging, not the issues.

Create friendships and show up to them All relationships must be fed with word and action and intention. Choose to be real and authentic and honest, Talk about it when it is not working. Celebrate it when it is.

Most people are wounded because they were not witnessed as whole and beautiful and because they were not given permission to speak their truth, without another taking it on or feeling blamed or whatever. They have the tendency to view experience and people through the eyes of the woundings and all the decisions for survival made at the point of wounding. Be sensitive and compassionate to self and others. We all need someone we can lean on… show up and be engaged in your moments with the one before you.

Some only pass through our lives in a wisp. I suggest that you begin to see any interaction and acquaintance as useful and even informational. Angels come and go as do the guides. Your past struggles show up in a new package to see if you have learned the lessons. Remember that your Higher Self orchestrates your moments and all who come into your sphere of awareness. Live awake and notice everything. It is so much richer. No accidents…just opportunities to wake up. Yes, this is a whole new way to live your golden moments.

Learn to not sleep through your awake time. It is a much more fruitful adventure and journey.